So, I have a few small problems with a few creatures of the male species. =] Yeah, I said a fewww! Gosh. So lets start...

The Ex- Well, he's an X for a reason, ya' know? When you break up with someone it's obviously because you differ in someway or another. BUT. He doesn't understand that. I mean, I grant that the 14 months I spent with him was very nice, and he treated me quite fairly...BUT we were just not right for each other...at all. Age, attitude, drive, goals...everything was way off. It's been over a year now and he still calls me!!! And I still answer...which I know is my own fault. He's beggining to interupt my chances at finding someone else...which brings me toooooo...

The New Flame- He is awesome!!!!We love the same music, we have the same humor, we both share a love of photography! He's smart, he's funny, he's just all around nice. He takes me out, and doesn't expect me to pay for myself. He has a good job, he's in college, and he lives on his own!!! We talk/text/see each other alot, and I find myself falling for him quite hard. But right as I think this could be one for the long haul...someone else pops ups...

The First Love- Fell completely head over heals for him when I was 14. He's the one I still compare every guy to, he's the one I think of when I hear certain songs, and not to mention certain movies. BUT he's been out of my life since I was 16. Until a week ago. I wake up to a text from him saying "Hello." Nothing more, nothing less. Being the DUMB female that I am, my heart sank and I replyed as fast as I possibly could. Needless to say, I'm now talking to him daily.

Now that you know the background, lets focus on the problem.

I want to be with Mr. New Flame, but I'm still completly in love with Mr. First Love. Not to mention Mr. Ex is in the way of me being with either of them.

What do I do? =///